Drum Lessons FAQ for Parents | West Bend, WI | Erik Holmes

Everything you need to know before getting started with drum lessons


Choosing drum lessons for your child is a big decision. Parents often have questions about age requirements, practice expectations, equipment, pricing, and whether private drum lessons are really worth it.

This FAQ answers the most common questions parents ask about private drum lessons for kids in West Bend, Wisconsin, so you can feel confident before getting started.

General Lesson Questions

What ages do you teach?

Drum lessons are best suited for anyone ages 10 through adult. Most students begin between ages 10–16, but I also teach high school students and adults of all experience levels. I occasionally offer drum lessons to 8 and 9 year olds on a case by case basis. Drum lessons can be a good fit, particularly if the student has piano experience and if the parents also have a musical background.

Will drum lessons help my child in school band?

Yes. Reading rhythm, proper technique, and timekeeping are essential skills for school band programs. Private lessons give students a strong foundation that helps them succeed in ensembles.

My 5 (or 6 or 7) year old really wants to play drums. Can you start them early?

I get this question a lot—and the answer is no, and that’s intentional.

Starting drum lessons after age 10 gives children the physical coordination, focus, and cognitive development needed to succeed. I occasionally offer drum lessons to 8 and 9 year olds on a case by case basis. Drum lessons can be a good fit, particularly if the student has piano experience and if the parents also have a musical background.

Waiting until they are a little older helps students:

  • Understand rhythm and counting more clearly
  • Coordinate hands and feet effectively
  • Avoid frustration and burnout
  • Progress faster once lessons begin

I’d much rather your child start at 10 and love lessons than start too early and struggle. I’ll be excited to welcome them when the time is right!

Am I (or is my child) too old to learn drums?

Absolutely not. I teach all students from ages 10 to adult, including beginners who have never played music before. I have many retirement age students. Age is not a limitation—patience, consistency, and curiosity matter far more.

Are drum lessons good for kids with lots of energy?

Absolutely. Drumming is an excellent outlet for physical energy while also developing focus, coordination, and discipline. Many parents notice improvements in concentration and confidence over time.

Do we really need lessons? There are so many videos online.

YouTube and Drumeo are a great supplement—but it’s not a substitute for private instruction.

Private lessons provide:

  • Personalized feedback
  • Real-time correction
  • Accountability
  • A structured curriculum
  • Encouragement and mentorship

Videos can’t tell you why something isn’t working—or how to fix it. A teacher can.

Are drums easy?

No. Don’t kid yourself—they’re hard. Honestly, I’d argue drums are one of the most challenging instruments to learn.

That said…
They’re also incredibly fun. Rising to a challenge, seeing progress, and playing music you love is deeply rewarding. Hard doesn’t mean miserable—it means exciting.

How tall are you?

I’m 6’8″. No joke.
Yes, I’m gigantic.
No, I don’t play basketball.
I play drums.

Teaching Style & Environment

Are you a nice drum teacher?

Yes. I won’t be too much like that guy in Whiplash. Promise.

I’m supportive, encouraging, and structured—but I also hold students accountable. My goal is to help students grow while keeping lessons positive, motivating, and fun.

What is your teaching style like?

Lessons are:

  • Structured but flexible
  • Focused on reading, technique, time, musicality and most importantly, LISTENING!
  • Adapted to each student’s personality and goals

For younger students, lessons emphasize fundamentals and consistency. For older students, we balance technique with real-world music, ensemble skills.

Do parents sit in on lessons?

Yep, all the time! I have a nice waiting area where parents are able to observe the lesson without being distracting to the student. I’m always available to answer questions and discuss the lesson assignments after the lesson. Many parents drop off their children and run errands, but I still ask parents check in from time to time.

Do you give homework or practice assignments?

Yes—but it’s manageable and realistic. Students leave each lesson knowing exactly what to practice and how to practice it. Quality and consistency matters more than long practice sessions.

What if my child loses interest?

This is common—and normal. Motivation naturally goes up and down. My job is to keep lessons engaging while maintaining structure and accountability. Clear communication with parents helps us navigate this together.

How often should my child practice drums?

Most students make great progress practicing 15–30 minutes, 4–5 days per week. Consistency matters far more than long practice sessions. I help students (and parents) understand how to practice effectively, not just how long.

Pricing & Policies

How much are drum lessons?

Current monthly lesson rates:

  • Weekly 30-minute lessons: $125 per month
  • Weekly 60-minute lessons: $240 per month

Lessons are billed monthly and require a consistent weekly commitment.

Are there after-school lesson times available?

Yes, of course! I teach Monday through Friday until 8pm. After-school slots are very popular and may be limited or sold out at certain times of the year. Availability changes, so please contact me for current openings.

Is this a month-to-month commitment?

Lessons are a monthly commitment. Consistency is essential for real progress, especially for young students.

Can siblings share lesson time?

Each student needs their own lesson time to make meaningful progress. However, siblings are welcome to observe, and scheduling back-to-back lessons is often possible.

Do you offer make-up lessons?

No. However, I don’t charge extra when there is a 5th lesson in the month. This occasional “bonus” lesson makes up for missed lessons due to illness, sports, vacations, etc. I ask parents do not send a sick child to lessons.

Equipment & Materials

Do we need an instrument at home?

Yes. Students must have an instrument at home to practice.

Your needs will depend on your goals and experience level. I’m happy to:

  • Recommend good new or used instruments
  • Help you avoid low-quality gear
  • Occasionally offer used instruments for sale or rent

Just ask—I’ll point you in the right direction.

What other expenses should we expect?

In addition to lessons, families should budget for:

  • Sticks & mallets: ~$80 per year
  • Books & materials: ~$80 per year

I keep many recommended sticks and books in stock for convenience.

Do students need a full drum set right away?

Not always. Many beginners start with a practice pad and later transition to a drum set after a month lessons. I’ll guide you through this step-by-step.

What equipment do you have in your studio?
  • Concert Snare Drums
  • Marching Snare Drum
  • Professional Quality Acoustic Drum Sets and Cymbals
  • 4-Octave Rosewood Marimba
  • 3.5-Octave Rosewood Xylophone
  • 3-Octave Vibraphone
  • Deagan Glockenspiel (Bells)
  • Timpani
  • Congas and Bongos
  • Concert Bass Drum
  • Concert Crash Cymbals
  • Tambourines
  • Triangles
  • Shakers/Maracas
  • Many other auxiliary percussion instrument
  • A crazy amount of practice pads

Learning, Progress & Expectations

How long does it take to see progress?

Most students see noticeable progress within the first few months, especially with regular practice. Progress depends on consistency, focus, and effort—not natural talent.

Will my child learn to read music?

Yes. Reading rhythm is a core part of my teaching. This skill helps students:

  • Become confident, independent learners
  • Succeed in school band programs
  • Play with other musicians
Do you prepare students for auditions or school music assessments?

Yes. I regularly help students prepare for:

  • School band auditions
  • Solo & ensemble festivals
  • Honor band auditions

Preparation focuses on accuracy, musicality, and confidence.

Will my child learn songs?

Yes—but always alongside fundamentals. Playing music students love keeps lessons fun and motivating, while technique and reading ensure long-term success. Real songs are learned ear at first, then we transition to reading full transcriptions, lead sheets, Nashville Numbers, and other forms of sheet music.

How do I know if my child is making progress?

Progress shows up in many ways: better time, improved reading, stronger coordination, and increased confidence. I’m always happy to communicate with parents about progress and expectations.

What if my child isn’t practicing?

That’s very common—and part of teaching. I work with students to build practice habits and motivation, and I communicate honestly with parents when practice becomes an issue.

Accessibility & Inclusivity

Do you teach students with disabilities?

Absolutely yes.

I’ve successfully taught students with a wide range of physical and cognitive disabilities. Music connects in many ways, and lessons can be adapted to fit individual needs.

I encourage parents to reach out so we can discuss whether I’m the right fit and how lessons can be structured for success.

Location & Logistics

Where are lessons located?

Lessons are taught in my private, home studio in West Bend, Wisconsin. I’m located near Badger Middle School, about a half mile south of downtown.

Do you offer online lessons?

No.


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Ready to Get Started?

If you’re ready to explore drum lessons for your child, I’d love to talk. Contact me to check availability, ask questions, or schedule a first lesson. Explore many of the other resources I have on my website as well.